GT: The Perfect Guy
It’s the love month girlies, and we’re starting off this February with our idea of what makes a perfect man. Of course there really is no such thing as the ultimate perfect guy for everyone, as we girls have different views on what makes someone flawless, so what we’re going to do is this:
- If you’re currently in a relationship, list his qualities that makes him perfect for you. An appreciation exercise, if you must.
- If you’re single at the moment, list the qualities of a guy that will more than likely make you fall in love with him.
Okay? Good. So let me start the ball rolling. Paulie and I have been in a relationship for almost seven years now, been living together for five. Although I sometimes feel like giving him back to his mother wrapped in a sack (he knows, I tell him when I feel that way, so there’s no worrying he might read this. LOL), there are a lot more times when I feel truly blessed for having him in my life. He is not a romantic, mind you, but what he lacks in the squee-inducing department, he more than makes up for in taking care of me and Svet everyday.
I often promised in my single days that I will forever hold on to the man who will love my kid/s more than he loves me, and I found that man in Paulie. He likes children in general, he’s patient with them, so I could tell right off the bat that he’s a keeper. We don’t have the typical set-up where the guy works and the woman keeps the home clean and takes care of the kids. We have reversed roles, and while not a lot of men will be okay with that arrangement, he knows it’s what’s best for us and does what he can to help me.
He knows me very well, he can sense my mood changes and adapts to it. I know it’s supposed to go both ways, but he is more giving in that area and he mostly says sorry even if I’m the one at fault. He and my mom may not have gotten along well during the first year of our living together, but I can see he tries hard to make up for it. They’re on very good terms already, and I actually think he loves my mom like his own now.
And while I want to go on and on about why I think Paulie is perfect for me, I wouldn’t want to eat all of your day reading my post! LOL. Besides, I want to read your version of a perfect man. Join in the Girls Talk fun! How? Simple! Just make a post including the Girls Talk badge AND link, submit the EXACT URL of your post at the inLinkz tool below and hop to the blogs of the other participants to see what other they have to say on the prompt of the week topic! That is how you play Girls Talk!
You are so lucky to have him as a hubby, maybe your mom was not ready to let you go that’s why they were not in good terms with your husband. It is always like that right? But at least now your husband proven his worth, thus that makes it a happy ending…. Mine is up, i hope you can take a visit. thanks!
yes! finally something i can write about! i miss joining you guys…
i think it’s amazing you and Paulie have got it going on for 7 years..
xoxo, Zahara Tales
my post: zahara’s Perfect Guy
wow thanks for sharing,i can relate to that!:))happy gt!!
Indeed, lucky is the person who finds true love!:)